The Pressure We Put Ourselves Under To Find a Way Forward

This is a post I wrote especially for ProHealth’s Inspirational Corner and first appeared there about 7 weeks ago Because there is no cure for chronic illness, many of us take on an awful lot of responsibility for doing whatever we possibly can to improve our well-being. As a Self-Help Guru, taking responsibility for our own well-being … Read more

Letting Go of the Need to Understand it All

Because none of the doctors I’ve ever seen have been able to give me a reasonable explanation for what I was going through, let alone any helpful advice or medication, like many others, I’ve taken it upon myself to find that understanding on my own. I’ve read many books and scientific articles and compared their … Read more

Holding Ourselves Accountable For Our Self-Help

Self-help involves a certain amount of self-discipline. The things we need to do to optimise our well-being rarely fall into the category of things that would form a natural part of our day. Pacing, establishing a good sleep routine, avoiding food intolerances, taking supplements, meditation and relaxation, are all things that may not have even … Read more

Self-Help: The Person-Centered Approach to Wellbeing

This is a post I wrote especially for ProHealth’s Inspirational Corner and first appeared there about a month ago: For me, self-help is all about taking responsibility for my own well-being. It means making choices and taking actions with the aim of bringing about improvements to my health and happiness. I first made the choice … Read more

ME/CFS and Life Skills

With my book just about finished (although sadly still without publisher) I’ve decided to invest my energy in a life coaching course. I hope to set up my own skype business so I’ll be able manage my work load and work from home. (Email me if you’d be interested in a bit of free life … Read more

ME/CFS and Self-Love

Optimising our health when we have this condition takes an awful lot of care and attention. We need to learn to assess our daily energy levels, keep within those daily limits, pace ourselves, eat healthily often avoiding certain foods, pay attention to our sleeping habits, include safe and effortless movement/exercise in our daily routine and … Read more

ME/CFS and the Fundamental Importance of Recognising and Respecting our Energy Limits

There is nothing new in this statement. There is even specific ME/CFS terminology for it: staying within our ‘energy envelope’! But the fact is that it’s extraordinarily difficult to achieve. However I believe that if we were only to focus on one illness management goal, this would have to be the one.  The more we can … Read more